Trying a new experience can be truly daunting, especially when it’s an experience that’ll likely be emotionally charged and at times, perhaps even rewardingly challenging. If you’ve had a psychic reading before, you probably have a good idea of how the process unfolds. Nevertheless, for those first-timers who are wondering what to anticipate, here are some general things to remember when visiting with a psychic medium for the first time.

           *Please note, that while many psychics share certain techniques, every psychic is different, and every experience varies. Your particular medium may operate in a specific way that differs from others. What’s important is that this is communicated to you beforehand and during.

1- A Vulnerable and Transparent Client Generally Makes for a Better Reading

           While psychic mediums are gifted and have a highly developed talent for extracting information from spirits, they are not omniscient or all-knowing in every single circumstance. Someone who claims to be is definitely a medium you want to steer clear of. Furthermore, the more that you are willing to offer in a reading, the more likely your reading will be that much more engaging. Being vulnerable, of course, is not always easy and isn’t necessarily required to have a reading that is full of depth or worthwhile. However, with most of life’s ventures the more you’re willing to give, the more you’re likely to receive.

           Nevertheless, a good medium should never be forceful or aggressive in extracting information. It is okay to have boundaries regarding specific content and to request (and expect) they are respected.

2- It’s Okay to Come Prepared! Have Questions in Mind

           A lot of people go into psychic readings thinking they’ll remain mostly quiet and let the medium control every aspect of the conversation. However, it is perfectly normal, and rather, encouraged for a client to come in with questions and goals of their own. Not only does this help the client vet the legitimacy of the psychic, but it also helps make the reading that much more personalized and impactful.

           Don’t be afraid to ask specific and open-ended questions. Reputable psychics like myself are here to listen and help. Oftentimes, the best way to help a client reach their goals is to gauge where exactly they have been and where they would like to go. Some of the best work between psychic and client occurs in a collaborative nature. In short, be vocal and advocate for what you want.

3- Having an Emotional Response is Par for the Course

           Even given the sensitive subject matter, first-time clients may not realize just how emotionally charged a reading can be. Nevertheless, whether it’s your initial reading or one of many, it’s completely valid to experience a strong emotional response. A reading is not a place where you need to hide away your emotions or try and keep them tightly regulated. In fact, while you may be caught off guard, your medium is likely expecting you to have a reaction.

Just remember, it is okay to feel whatever you’re feeling when undergoing a reading, It is also perfectly healthy and acceptable to take time to process your emotions. A seasoned psychic medium should have no trouble respecting your wishes.